I love this quote it defines what we need to find in everybody, "Being human means having fault. We are all willing to learn, willing to work tords perfection, for having perfection, is not being the best at something. It is doing you best at something and understanding the difference.
My thoughts on relationships are interesting. I mean, there is what
people say, and then there is what really needs to happen. I try to
play by the form that works the best. For those of you that don't know
yet, let me outline the bread and butter of how all relationships need
to be. I'm not saying this because its what works the best for me. I
am saying this because it is what will always work. I promise you if
you follow all the steps and rules you will never fail.
Okay, I was just kidding. There are no steps, just rules. For the most
part, it doesn't matter what order you do them in just as long as you
have all of them in the end. Ill try and make these so you can read them
but you might have to zoom in on some of them.
Just remember what I am about to tell you. You don't have to follow it. It's just what I know to work.
Let me start by saying the best way to describe this whole thing is with a triangle. I like to call it "The Triangle of Relationships." This is what it looks like:
I know what you are thinking. It looks like just every other triangle. Well, that is were you are wrong. This one is special, and let me tell you why.
For all relationships, what is the number one thing you need? Can you guess what that is? Let me give you a hint. Are you ready for this? Its You.
A Relationship cannot exist without a MAM and a WOMEN. Despite what you may think, this dose only work if you have a MAN and a WOMEN. Let me tell you why.
Its not enough to just have each other. You need one other person. You know who that is. He is the most important person in you relationship. Yes even more impotent then your significant other. Tired of whiting to find out? Well scroll
That's right its God. God is the most important person in your relationship. He is what connects us spiritually. This is why this triangle will not work if you are gay. still confused why. Well let me explain it in a little more detail for you. If you read LEVITICUS 18:22-23 For those of you who have not read this before, I suggest you read it.. It says "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with woman kind: it is an abomination." If you read in the footnotes, its talking about Homosexuality.
If you have all three of these (MAN, WOMEN, and GOD) you are ready for the next step, witch contains what everybody needs in every relationship .
Friendship is one of the most important bases that every person needs in a relationship. It is like your bread and butter. Friendship is a must have.
I like to call this the C.T.R. Program. "C.T.R." stands for three very important things to have. Nothing is going to last without them.
"C" is for commitment. Commitment is an important part of this program, due to fact that if either you or your partner are not committed on seeing this through all the way, you might as well stop. It's not going to last, and you will most likely end up hurting someone.
"T" stands for Trust. It is important that you trust each other. Trust is a form of Honesty and Honesty is important. Lies do nothing but cause pain for everybody that becomes involved in them.
Last, but not least, we have Respect. You must respect each other in everything and every decision. Commitment, Trust, and Respect are a trio and work together. You need to Trust somebody to be able to Respect them. In turn, they will do the same for you. But how can you Trust and Respect somebody if you are not Committed to them? The C.T.R. program doesn't only apply to love relationships. It works with a Friendship too. Hence Friendship is continually useful though out this entire design.
Onward to the next stage...
COMMUNICATION Is the Key to all success In every Relationship. No matter on the reason of the relationship. Everything that I have been talking about up to this point will not work unless you have Communication. Doesn't matter who you are with or the reasons that you are with each other it can not work without Communication.. Let me explain., without the simple task of talking to one another. Immediately takes away all the Trust, and Respect. And with out those you can not have Friendship. for Friendship consists of Trusting people to the point of Respecting them. And taking out all that. there is no need for Commitment sense there is no Friendship to be Commuted to. And if there is no Commitment THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP. So I will say again. Communication is the KEY to All Relationships.
And the Last part of a Loving Relationship is......
That's right it's Intimacy. Bet you weren't expecting that. And when I talk about Intimacy. I don't Mean Intercourse.
What I am talking about is something that is simple and sweet. LOVE Love that person. and not just telling but showing you Love them 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Once you are able to reach this stage. And complete it with Perfection. Then there is nothing else to teach you. And Just remember. Perfection. is not being perfect at what you are doing. But Perfectly doing it to the best of your ability.
Now as you are pondering what you have learned today, just remember.
And tell yourself if you are looking for that somebody.
And If you have found that person. Just follow this chart and you will be okay.
And this is the Finale addition I have been thinking and I revised it so this is what it should look like know
Just remember what I am about to tell you. You don't have to follow it. It's just what I know to work.
Let me start by saying the best way to describe this whole thing is with a triangle. I like to call it "The Triangle of Relationships." This is what it looks like:
For all relationships, what is the number one thing you need? Can you guess what that is? Let me give you a hint. Are you ready for this? Its You.
A Relationship cannot exist without a MAM and a WOMEN. Despite what you may think, this dose only work if you have a MAN and a WOMEN. Let me tell you why.
Its not enough to just have each other. You need one other person. You know who that is. He is the most important person in you relationship. Yes even more impotent then your significant other. Tired of whiting to find out? Well scroll
That's right its God. God is the most important person in your relationship. He is what connects us spiritually. This is why this triangle will not work if you are gay. still confused why. Well let me explain it in a little more detail for you. If you read LEVITICUS 18:22-23 For those of you who have not read this before, I suggest you read it.. It says "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with woman kind: it is an abomination." If you read in the footnotes, its talking about Homosexuality.
If you have all three of these (MAN, WOMEN, and GOD) you are ready for the next step, witch contains what everybody needs in every relationship .
Friendship is one of the most important bases that every person needs in a relationship. It is like your bread and butter. Friendship is a must have.
I like to call this the C.T.R. Program. "C.T.R." stands for three very important things to have. Nothing is going to last without them.
"C" is for commitment. Commitment is an important part of this program, due to fact that if either you or your partner are not committed on seeing this through all the way, you might as well stop. It's not going to last, and you will most likely end up hurting someone.
"T" stands for Trust. It is important that you trust each other. Trust is a form of Honesty and Honesty is important. Lies do nothing but cause pain for everybody that becomes involved in them.
Last, but not least, we have Respect. You must respect each other in everything and every decision. Commitment, Trust, and Respect are a trio and work together. You need to Trust somebody to be able to Respect them. In turn, they will do the same for you. But how can you Trust and Respect somebody if you are not Committed to them? The C.T.R. program doesn't only apply to love relationships. It works with a Friendship too. Hence Friendship is continually useful though out this entire design.
Onward to the next stage...
COMMUNICATION Is the Key to all success In every Relationship. No matter on the reason of the relationship. Everything that I have been talking about up to this point will not work unless you have Communication. Doesn't matter who you are with or the reasons that you are with each other it can not work without Communication.. Let me explain., without the simple task of talking to one another. Immediately takes away all the Trust, and Respect. And with out those you can not have Friendship. for Friendship consists of Trusting people to the point of Respecting them. And taking out all that. there is no need for Commitment sense there is no Friendship to be Commuted to. And if there is no Commitment THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP. So I will say again. Communication is the KEY to All Relationships.
And the Last part of a Loving Relationship is......
That's right it's Intimacy. Bet you weren't expecting that. And when I talk about Intimacy. I don't Mean Intercourse.
What I am talking about is something that is simple and sweet. LOVE Love that person. and not just telling but showing you Love them 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Once you are able to reach this stage. And complete it with Perfection. Then there is nothing else to teach you. And Just remember. Perfection. is not being perfect at what you are doing. But Perfectly doing it to the best of your ability.
Now as you are pondering what you have learned today, just remember.
“A great relationship would have to
start with communication; it is the base principle for trust, respect, and
commitment. A great relationship needs these, as well as friendship, you need
to be conferrable enough around somebody to be able to talk to them, hence
communication with no fear of judgment or rejection.
So to sum up a good relationship would consist of trust, honesty, respect, commitment, communication, and friendship, witch hopefully would turn into love, but in order for that to happen you need to cherish it with all your heart, for example, a relationship is like a flower, at first you need to nourish it, take care of it, and eventually it will turn into a beautiful blossom.”
So to sum up a good relationship would consist of trust, honesty, respect, commitment, communication, and friendship, witch hopefully would turn into love, but in order for that to happen you need to cherish it with all your heart, for example, a relationship is like a flower, at first you need to nourish it, take care of it, and eventually it will turn into a beautiful blossom.”
And tell yourself if you are looking for that somebody.
“Well I am looking for compassion,
companionship, somebody that I can get to know and be a friend to, and perhaps
more if there is a fire burning inside, I am looking for that spark, to bind
everlasting friendship, kindness, trust, and love, I am here to get to know
you, by tearing away the hardened layers of your shell, to get to the worm
undercoating of your heart.”
And If you have found that person. Just follow this chart and you will be okay.
And this is the Finale addition I have been thinking and I revised it so this is what it should look like know
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